http://www.poochtips.com “Defusing Homecomings and Departures”: At homecomings or departures, the owners must avoid all emotional interplay with the dog. This requires behaving in a matter-of-fact manner. In many cases, even eye contact with the dog should be avoided if it causes excitement. Homecoming greetings should be delayed at least 5 minutes and then should be low key, with minimal petting and a few quiet words. If the dog barks for attention, the greeting must be ignored until the dog becomes quiet.